Coming out is different for everyone, but there seem to be several distinct stages that can be recognized in most journeys.  Here is how I see them…… Read more “The Stages of Coming Out”

“I was already on the fence because of my schedule with work (I just got a promotion) and basketball season has started and I’m back coaching again…But…… Read more “Love and Grace”

I’m not talking about “fuck” or “faggot.”  I’m talking about “feelings.” One of the first lessons I learned as a young high school aged Christian was “feelings…… Read more “The F Word”

This is a tough topic for anyone to talk about, and I’m no exception.  A conversation about suicide.  I actually tried to write about it a couple…… Read more “A Difficult Conversation”

One of the last things Jesus said while on the cross was, “Forgive them, Father, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). Do you think…… Read more “What they do”

If you didn’t know, June is traditionally LGBT Pride Month across the country. It’s ok, I didn’t know either, until this June.  If you’re interested, I would…… Read more “Gay Pride”

In the wake of the Orlando shooting over the weekend, I have seen a wide range of responses from my friends, who range from conservative Evangelicals to…… Read more “Say What You Want”

Matthew 22:34-40 The Great Commandment 34 But when the Pharisees heard that he had silenced the Sadducees, they gathered together. 35 And one of them, a lawyer, asked him…… Read more “Love, love, love, love, love”

A Woman Caught in Adultery 8 Jesus returned to the Mount of Olives, 2 but early the next morning he was back again at the Temple. A crowd soon…… Read more “Amazing Grace”

I was interviewed a while ago for a research project regarding the experiences of sexual minorities who had graduated from Christian colleges and universities.  It’s a very…… Read more “Research”