It’s been a year since I came out, so I am trying to revisit some of my first blogs and expand upon them with the knowledge and…… Read more “Starting the Journey (2)”

I’ve been trying to write this blog for over a month.  I’ve written several drafts that have gone several different directions, and I’m still struggling to narrow…… Read more “The Best Year of My Life!”

Trust me, I am far from an expert on gay dating. I wouldn’t even say I’m experienced.  The only reason I’m sharing this is because I wish…… Read more “Advice: Gay Dating”

If you’re a gay Christian, finding a good church may be pretty difficult.  Even if you’re not gay, finding a good church can be difficult.  Here is…… Read more “Advice: Finding a Church”

Coming out is different for everyone, but there seem to be several distinct stages that can be recognized in most journeys.  Here is how I see them…… Read more “The Stages of Coming Out”

“I was already on the fence because of my schedule with work (I just got a promotion) and basketball season has started and I’m back coaching again…But…… Read more “Love and Grace”

I’m not talking about “fuck” or “faggot.”  I’m talking about “feelings.” One of the first lessons I learned as a young high school aged Christian was “feelings…… Read more “The F Word”